Strategies for Success With Roommates

Communicating with Your Roommate(s)

Living with someone is a great way to gain independence and even to make friends for life, but it can also be difficult, especially if you’ve never had to share living space before. By communicating effectively with your roommate(s), you can avoid unnecessary conflict and resolve any conflict that may arise.

Beware of Demands

Have you ever felt like you would be blamed or punished if you did not do what was being asked of you? If so, then you know how it feels to have someone demand something from you. Demands also tend to come with criticisms and judgment.

By trying to empathize and understand why your request may have been turned down, you can avoid this mistake. When we use demanding language, people will either submit or rebel. Either way, the chance of working together to meet everyone’s needs is diminished.